09 October 2023 — THINGS COULD BE GOING BETTER

So why are ‘things’ — the day — not going as we would wish?.

We create our reality through our thoughts! So change our thoughts! It’s that easy! But how easy is it really to change the way we think and do we truly create our reality through our thoughts?

The answer to the first question is ‘not that easy’ and to the second I believe is ’YES’ we do create our reality through our thoughts. WE ARE WHO WE THINK WE ARE.

We are not puppets placed on earth but people who can determine how they want to live, how they want to act and who they wish to be.

SOCIALISATION is, of course, very influential in determining the kind of adult we grow up to be. Things we were told about ourselves as children we tend to believe and the ways in which people acted towards us influenced the way we saw ourselves and they probably still do.

Even if we are determined to overcome our socialisation the ideas about ourselves we took on board as children will still haunt us on some level. For some people life is a ‘FIGHT’ in the sense that they feel anger and despair about what they took on board from parents, relatives, teachers and friends as to who and how they were and indeed find themselves now.

SO, in actual fact it could be said that in many cases we expect to be blamed, not appreciated or accepted for who we are. and WHO WE ARE is actually not who we truly are. Many of us have partners, parents, friends who see us in a certain way and expect us to act in a certain way.

We need to find the courage to ACCEPT OURSELVES AS WE ARE and TO LOVE OURSELVES WARTS AND ALL!

Ponder Points: On reading this my feelings were ..my thoughts are …